Mastering the Self-Deprecating Anthem
"I'm a Mess" by Bebe Rexha is a standout track from her debut album Expectations. It blends vulnerable lyrics with an infectious, high-energy pop beat. For vocalists, the challenge lies in capturing the emotional duality of the song: sounding fragile in the verses and powerful in the chorus.
To sing this well, you need to navigate the break between your chest voice and your mix comfortably. Bebe Rexha is known for her unique vocal color, often using a "slurred" or stylized pronunciation that adds character. Let's break down exactly how to tackle it.
AI Coach Tip: Watch Your Diction
In the chorus, the words "I'm a mess, I'm a loser, I'm a hater, I'm a user" come quickly. Our analysis shows that users often lose clarity here. Focus on sharp consonants (T's and S's) to keep the rhythm tight.
Phase 1: The Verses (Low & Intimate)
The song begins in a lower register (around F#3). The line "Everything's been so messed up here lately" should be delivered almost like a conversation. You can lean into a bit of vocal fry at the ends of phrases to mimic Bebe's style.
The Trap: Because it's low, singers often lose breath support, making the pitch sound flat. Keep your core engaged even when singing quietly.
Phase 2: The Pre-Chorus Build
As you sing "He don't love me, he don't love me," the melody begins to climb. You need to start lifting your soft palate to create more space. This section builds the tension that releases in the chorus.
- Resonance: Shift from a chest-heavy sound to a forward "mask" placement.
- Dynamics: Gradually increase your volume (crescendo) leading into the drop.
Phase 3: The Chorus Belt
The chorus is the hook of the song. It sits comfortably in the middle-high range for a Mezzo-Soprano but requires stamina. The melody is repetitive and rhythmic.
To hit the notes on "I'm a mess" with power but without strain, use a "mix voice." This blends the power of your chest voice with the ease of your head voice. Avoid shouting; let the microphone do the work for the volume, and focus on the tone quality.
Frequently Asked Questions
The main vocal melody hits a B4 and occasionally touches C#5/D5 in ad-libs and harmonies. It is a very accessible range for most pop singers.
It helps with the style! Vocal fry is common in modern pop to convey intimacy or "messiness." However, use it sparingly in the verses and ensure you aren't hurting your throat.
The phrases are short but rapid. Practice "snatch breaths"—quick, silent inhales through the mouth—between the lines "I'm a mess" and "I'm a loser."
