The Ultimate 2000s R&B Duet
Released in 2002, "Dilemma" became an instant classic by blending Nelly's St. Louis rap style with Kelly Rowland's polished R&B vocals. The song is built around a sample of Patti LaBelle's "Love, Need and Want You," giving it a soulful foundation that requires excellent pitch control and groove.
Singing this track poses a unique challenge: managing the "Call and Response" dynamic. Whether you are singing solo or with a partner, you must distinguish between the percussive verses and the smooth, flowing chorus.
Phase 1: The "Kelly" Chorus (0:24 - 0:45)
The hook ("No matter what I do, all I think about is you") is the emotional core. It sits in a comfortable mezzo-soprano range. The key here is legato—smooth, connected notes.
The Trap: Many singers go too breathy on the high notes. Maintain a solid chest-mix resonance to keep the vocals present, especially on the "I love you" line, which should be clear and direct, not whispered.
Phase 2: The "Nelly" Verses (0:45 - 1:28)
Nelly employs a sing-song rap style. While it's technically rapping, there is a definite pitch center (hovering around the root note D# and F#). You cannot just speak these lines; you must intone them.
- Articulation: Enunciate clearly but keep the vowels relaxed to match the laid-back vibe.
- Rhythm: The flow is bouncy. Practice the syncopation on lines like "I met this chick and she just moved right up the block."
Phase 3: The Bridge & Outro
As the song progresses, ad-libs become crucial. The background "Oohs" and harmonies reach up to C#5. If you are singing the lead, stay grounded in the melody while allowing the backing track (or your duet partner) to handle the high harmony layers.
The bridge acts as a conversation. Ensure there is a tonal difference between the two characters in the song to convey the story of the "dilemma" effectively.